Mrs. Bonner, these are for you. You’re one of the strongest people I know, having survived cancer not once, not twice, but three times, as well as a heart attack. I haven’t seen you in over two years, but I’m sure if I ran into you today, you would give me the same hug you used to give me during the four years that I was lucky enough to date your youngest son. I wish nothing but the best and speediest recovery for you. I don’t know if there is a God, but just in case, I’m praying like hell for you.